Saturday, 31 May 2025

A little Bit about Bawel Pendiam

An Indonesian woman, 43 years young, with a life so full of plot twists, even telenovelas would bow out. Her story isn’t a straight line—it’s a rollercoaster with no seatbelt and a DJ narrating it with dramatic sound effects.

She’s been through heartbreaks, career detours, emotional avalanches, and those “are you freaking kidding me?” moments life loves to throw at 2 a.m. But guess what? She’s still standing. Slightly tilted, maybe caffeinated, often sarcastic—but standing.

She talks to herself more than she should. Not because she’s lost it (well… maybe a little), but because sometimes the best conversations are the ones where no one interrupts. Her bolster? Basically her unpaid therapist. It’s heard things that would make a Netflix scriptwriter weep.

She doesn’t fake strength—she earns it. Through tear-stained pillows, awkward laughter in serious moments, and screaming into the void when no one’s around. She's not the “everything’s fine” type. She’s the “this is a mess, but I’ll make it fashion” kind.

She loves deeply but guards herself like a vault. Her fiancé is a walking dream, and even though she wants to spill her guts to him sometimes, she chooses to carry some weight alone. Not because she has to—but because she wants to protect the light they’ve built.

She craves peace, solitude, maybe a spa day, and uninterrupted naps. But even without all that, she keeps going. For her family, for her sanity, for herself.

She’s not trying to be perfect—she’s trying to be real. And real is raw, a little cracked, often hilarious, and always rising.

She’s not just surviving. She’s scripting her own epic, plot twist by plot twist. And spoiler alert: she wins.

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